I have a confession. I have yet to inform my bridesmaids that they are indeed my bridesmaids. Yes, I have been engaged since July. And yes, I have a pretty good idea of who it will be - its just complicated. My FI has two brothers, I have a brother and he has a set of about 5 good friends from high school and a set up like 5 friends from college. So, lets just say he is having a hard time picking. And I have always had the same good group of friends, so I have always know who will be mine. But its time for me to put my foot down. In about a week we will be selecting our venue and hopefully our wedding date, so it's time for people to know that they are in our wedding. So the pressure is on for him to decide this week. I would like to let me friends know officially the first week of 2013 and it would give me some times to come up with a creative way to ask them. So here are some of my ideas.